Late Ram Dayal Singh

Last Meeting with grandson and daughter in law.

Dil me kuch bat hai Jo ek kahani ki madhyam se kah dena chahta hu… Aj ki kahani me koi hero nhi hai, koi bada admi bhi nhi hai, syad ye har Hindustani pariwar ki kahani hai…ek Hindustani peeta ki kahani, aksar chup rahne wale peeta ki kahani, apne jajbaato or ahsaso ko apne andar hi daba k rakhne wale father ki kahani, kai bar aisa hota hai ki kuch log muhh se kuch nhi kah pate, apne aihsas ko logo k beech jahir nhi kr paate, jinhe aksar chup chap hi rahte hai.. Kam bolte hai.. Sirf apne kaam se matlab rakhte hai.. Unki puri duniya unka pariwar hi hota hai . Aisa hi Ek kissan pariwar tha, behad sadharan log unka pura jiwan chakr kheti k madhyam se hi chalta tha… Uper wale ki dua se thodi jazin thi to usi me kheti ka kaam krte the unk 2 bete or ek beti thi.. Beti ki saadi ho chuki thi or bade bete k liya ladki dekh rahe the… Ghr k saare bade decision unki patni hi liya krti thi.. Unhone apne bete k liya ek ladki dekhi… Ladki bhi behad garib pariwar se the, ladki k mata peeta sahar me majdor the… Unhe ladki pasand aaye or dono pariwar ki rajamandi se dhom dham se saadi hue… Saadi k kuch time tak to sab thik raha.. Dono pariwar kaafi khus tha…

PR thode time bad cheeze badlne lagi.. Ladki ko waha tana diya jaane laga baat baat PR, sasural se kuch mila nhi nisaani k taur PR, ladki k aane se 35 kelo anaj ka kharcha badh gaya hai.. Baat baat PR bola jaane laga bhai baap ko bula le apne ghr wapis chali ja… Jb tak ye taane ghr ki aurate deti rahi tab tak to ladki chup rahi PR jab pati ne bhi aise hi taane Marne suru kr diya to Ladki chup n rah paayee usne bhi jawab diya… Ladke ko biwi ka jawab dena pasand n aaya.. Use aisa laga jaise kisi ne uski mardangi ko lalkar diya.. Ladke ka ego aisa hurt hua ki usne apne biwi PR hath utha diya.. Biwi ne bhi gusse me use Marne k liya uska collar pakad liya.. Dono miya biwi k beech chikhna chillana itna badh gaya ki pure pariwar k sath sath pure ganw k logo ko es ladai ka pata chal gaya.. Ladke ko or uski maa ko aisa laga ki Uski biwi ne pure samaj me unhe badnaam kr diya, raat k koi 1 baj rahe the ladke ki maa ne beech bachao krne ki bajaye apne Bete se kaha ki abhi esk maa baap ko bol phone krk abhi le k jae apni beti ko yaha se.. Ladke ne use waqt apne biwi k maa baap ko phone laga diya Ulta sidha sunane laga picha se maa boo rahi thi bol abhi le k jae apni beti ko yaha se.. Ladki wale abhi tak samjh hi nhi paa rahe the ki aakhir hua kya.. Phone PR damad k chikhne chillane or uski maa ki galiyon ki aawaj aa rahi thi.. Ladki k rone ki awaj sunte hi ladki k maa baap bhi rone lage.. Raat k 1 baaje Delhi jaise sahar se Bihar k ek chote se gaon me jana possible to tha nhi esliya unhone phone PR hi unhe kisi tarah se samjhane ki kosis ki or sant krwaya ye kah kr ki jald hi kisi ko bhej k apni beti ko wapis bulwaenge… Es ladai jhagde k beech ladke k pariwar me ek ensaan aisa bhi tha Jo ensab ko rokhne ki kosis kr raha tha, sab ko saant rahne ko bol rahne ko bole raha tha wo tha ladke ka father, hamesa chup rahne wale ensaan, waise to ghar k mukhiya wo the par us din unki kisi ne nahi suni pura pariwar busy tha ladki ko galiya dene me.. Wo chup chap ghar se bahar chale gaye… Kuch din baad ladki apne maa baap k pass wapis aa gayee or apne maa baap ko saari kahani bataee.. Maa baap ne apni beti ki baat suni Or beti ko hi samjhaya Kya jarurat thi tumhe bhi jawab dene ki… Wo nhi chahte the ki unki beti k ghar kharab ho sayad esliya aisa bol rahe the.. Unhone mamle ko suljhane ki puri kosis ki or kuch time baad jab ladke waalo ki taraf se aswasan aaya ki dobara aisa nhi hoga to unhone apni beti ko fir se us ghar me wapas bheja.. Ab sab thik tha kuch dino tak… Jald hi ghar me ek naya mahman aa gaya.. dono pariwar kaafi khus tha… PR jald hi unki khusiyo ko kisi ki najar lag gayee… Fir se miya biwi k beech tu tu mai mai hone lagi… Ladki ko fir se wahi taane diya Jane lage ghar ki aurato k dawara… Ek din baat etni badh gayee ki ladke ne fir apni biwi PR hath utha diya… ladke ko lag raha tha uski biwi use maa bhai se ladwana chahti hai… Uska ghar todna chahti hai.. Ghr ka batwara krna chahti hai… Ladki ko lag raha tha koi uski ejjat nhi krta, sab tana marte rahte hai, yaha tak ki wo apne pati se bhi feeling share nhi kr sakti kyunki jhutha ego hurt ho jaega.. ladki ko lag raha tha ki wo puri kosis kr rahi gharwalo ko khus rakhne ki PR enk nakhre or complain khatam hi nhi hote… Specialy sasumaa k… Saasu maa ko lag raha tha jab se bahu aayee hai beta unki sunta hi nhi hai.. Kamai ka ek rupee nhi deta unhe.. Beta joru ka gulam ho gaya hai.. Kamal ka desh hai apna bhi har maa chahti hai ki unki beti ko aisa pati mile Jo unki or unki beti ki baato ko samjhe in short jodu ka gulam bhi chalega, ejjat kre or unki har baat maane PR beta na to bahu or usk maa baap ki sune, na hi unki ejjat kre or ma hi unki koi baat maane, beta jodu ka gulam bilkul nhi hona chahiya… Us din bhi wahi chikhna chillana ladai jhagda phone kr k ladki k maa baap ko ulta sidha bolna ye sab hua.. Es baar bhi hamesa sant or chup chap rahne waala peeta dono ko chup krwane ki kosis krta raha PR esbar bhi kisi me unki nhi suni.. Es baar ladki k maa baap ne ladki ka sath diya.. Ladki ko ghar wapis bula liya…saari kahani sunane k bad ladki k maa baap ne tai kiya ki jb tak ladka or uski maa apni soch me badalao nhi laate tab tak wo apni beti ko us ghr me wapis nhi bhejenge… Ladki ne bhi decide kr liya ki sahar me hi rah k koi choti moti naukri kr legi, apna or apne bachche ka palan posan kr legi… PR us ghr me wapis nhi jaegi jaha us PR hath uthaya jata hai.. Roj taane maare jaate hai… Kuch time tak wo sahar me hi apne maa baap k sath sahar me rahnelagi. Sasural se bilkul bhi phone nhi aa raha tha… Waha log baate krne lage ki enki harkato ki wajah se bahu apne bache k sath mayak chali gayee… Pure ganw me ye hi baat hone lagi… Muhh PR to unk koi kuch nhi kahta tha but unhe bhi sun hi liya tha … Es waqt bhi koi tha waha jo bar bar apne bete or biwi se kahna chahta tha ki apna ye jhutha ahankar tyag do.. mere bahu or pote ko wapis le aao.. PR unki sunta kon.. Esliya ghr me chup chap ek kone me baithe rahte the… Unki tabiyat bhi kharab rahne lagi.. Khana peena sab bahut kam ho gaya… Badi khamosi se apne bete ka ghar kharab hote dekh rahe the.. Chahte the thik krna PR koi unki sunane ko taiyar hi nhi tha… Koi apna ghamand chodne ko taiyar nhi tha… sab ek dosre ko neecha dikhana chahte the…. ganw me jb ladke se sub uski biwi bachche k baare me puchane lage to usne socha ki baat ejjat PR aa gayee hai ab to unhe wapis bulana hi padega, use bhi apni galti ka aihsas home laga.. PR bolta kaise ego Jo beech me aa raha tha… usne apni maa se es baare me baat kri or decide kiya ki use wapis bula lete hai bahut badnami ho rahi hai.. ab wo ladki k maa baap ko phone kr dhamki dene lage ki ya to apni beti or usk bachcho ko yaha chod jao ya fir saara saman yaha se wapis le jao.. Ladki k baap ko laga ab paani sar se Uper chala gaya.. Unhone apna aapa kho diya or bahut kuch ulta sidha ladke or usk maa ko suna diya… Or phone kaat diya… unhone tai kiya umar bhar apni beti or usk bache ko paal lenge PR us ghar me wapis nhi bhejenge…. edhar mama bete bhi gusse me aag babula no ladki walo KO galiya nikalne lage or kasam khai Jo marji ho jae ab us ladki KO as ghar me nhi aane denge…. Udhar ghr k kone me baithe sant se aadmi hamesa ki tarah sab chup chap dekh rahe the… Apne bete ka ghar barbad hote dekh rahe the… Apne bete or biwi ki jhuthi saano saukat me tutta apna pariwar dekh rahe the… Es bat ka unhe etna sadma laga wo or bimar ho gaye.. Unka bahut elaj chala PR doctor ko kisi bimari ka pata nhi chala… bahut saare test hue UN me bhi kuch nhi nikla.. Doctor ne apne hanth khade kr diya… Saaf saaf bol diya kuch dino k mahman hai.. wo baar baar apne pote(grandson) se milne ki baat dohra rahe the… tb ja k ladke ki maa ne rote hue apni bahu k maa baap k pass phone kiya or apni bahu or pote ko ghar bhejne k liya rqst krne lagi… Ladki k maa baap ne bhi thoda soch wichar k bad beti or usk bachche ko bhijwa diya jitni jald possible ho sakta tha… waha unki ankhe har pal apne pote or bahu ko dhundh rahi thi… Unhone khana chod diya tha sirf thoda juice or paani le rahe the taki kuch der unki sanse or chalti rahe or apni antim yatra se pahle apne pote or bahu KO akhari baar dekh sake…. jb bahu apne bache k sath waha pahunchi to unk chahre PR ek alag si muskan laut aayee.. Bahu me apne bachche k sath nam ankho see unka asirwad liya… Unhone apne pote KO kisi tarah apne bagal me bithaya Jo kewal abhi 2 saal ka tha… Bahut pyar see usk balo me bath fera or usk mathe KO chum liya… Fir unhone kisi tarah apne shirt k ghupt jeb me hath dala or usme koi 100 rupee the Jo unhone apni biwi or bachcho we chupa or apne pote k liya jama keeya tha… Sayad unki akhari bachat thi….Jo ensan pichle char din se bistar PR jinda lash ki tarah pada that aj apne pote or bahu KO dekh fir se zee utha tha kuch pal k liya… Chahre PR muskan thi or apne pote KO sahla rahe the… Sayad unk bete ka ghar tutane se Bach gaya tha esliya unki khusi unk chahre PR saaf jahir ho rahi thi..pura pariwar apni galti PR ro raha tha.. Aj so muskra rahe the or pura pariwar pachtawe k ansu ro raha tha… Agli subah 5 baje muskurate hue es duniya KO alwida kah gaye… PR jaate jaate apne bete ka pariwar jod gaye…sab KO lag raha tha ki unki maut bimari ki wajah se hue… PR apko kya lagta hai? ho sakta hai physicaly thode bahut bimar ho PR medical report me to koi bimari thi hi nahi… Unki maut bimari see nhi hue balki unhone khud maut KO chuna tha apne bete ka ghar fir se basane k liya… wo mentally depressed ho gaye jab unhone apni biwi or bete KO bahu se ladte dekha… Wo andar hi andar buri tarah tut gate jab jhuthe ghamand or ahankar ki wajah se apne bete ka ghar tutte dekha…unhe pata tha es jhuthe ghamand or ahankar KO sirf unki maut hi hara sakti hai…. Sirf esliya unhone maut KO miskarate hue gale laga liya…. wo zee jate koi ek bar kahta to sahi ap please thik ho jaeya Hume apki jarurat hai ab ye galti dobara nhi hogi PR kisi KO fursat hi kaha thi unhe dawaeya khilane se…. jakham andruni dil or dimag me tha, aihsas me tha, dar me tha, bawnao me tha or or kamabakht elaj sarir ka kr rahe the…end me etna hi kahunga aise saaf dil log Jo kam bolte hai… Akele rahna chup rahna pasand krte hai… Aise lag har pariwar me hote hai jinhe hum bewakuf samjh lete hai… Unse hum kisi baare me salah tak nhi lete…. Agar apk pariwar me bhi aise log hai to ap kismat wale hai… Jeete jeee unki velue KO Jane… Saadi me sirf do logo ka hi nhi do pariwaro ma bhi rista judta hai… Esliya miya biwi k apse jhagade band kamare me baat cheet se hi suljhae, aisa n hO Ki apki bachkani harkat kisi masum ki jaan le le… Es kahani k madhyam se main kisi bhi gharelo hinsa ka samrthak nhi hu. Pahle mamle KO baat cheet se suljhae.. Apne mata peeta ko saari baate khul k bataye… Jarurat padne PR apne kanuni madad le sakti hai mahila aayog ja k ya unk toll free no 181 PR call kr sakti hai madad or sujhao k liya…. Ye kahani thi Bihar k muzzafarpur jile k ek chote se gaon manihari k sawargiya shRi Ram dayal Singh ji Ki…. Ap hamesha hamare dilo me zinda rahenge.. ab mujhe bhi ejjat dijya fir mulakat hogi aise hi kisi dil KO cho lene wale kisse k sath..
Apka apna
Neeraj kumar mehta

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